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Amputee attraction waves

Post: # 32336Unread post Ampdev13
23 Aug 2018, 08:41

I'd love to know if any other devs experience this, so please leave some feedback!

I feel my attraction to amputees fluctuates greatly over different spans of time. I can go weeks without a single thought or image related to amputees crossing my mind, but then I have times I can go a week or more and I have trouble switching off my devotee thoughts. During these highs I crave any form of contact with either like minded people or the source of my fantasy - Amputee women.
I rarely reach out though as contact would be pretty fruitless.

During a high I find my s*ex life with my girlfriend can even begin to taper off and I feel helpless and alone during these times...

Anyway, like I said I would enjoy hearing from some others!




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Post: # 32367Unread post Acer19
24 Aug 2018, 14:59

Your experiences are the same as mine.



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Post: # 32374Unread post esalp1
25 Aug 2018, 14:06

Whenever I think about s*ex I think about an amputee female. When I travel somewhere I try to find out whether the destination has any connection to amputee females. Sometimes I was lucky and met a woman but most of the time not. This does not prevent me from thinking and searching and looking. It seems to me that amputee females hide or are afraid to have contact with males or even worth devotees. Escorts have not yet understood what size of market they neglect. Nevertheless I think contacts will develop just as pictures and clips developed.



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Post: # 32381Unread post femalecripplesonly
25 Aug 2018, 16:43

I was born as an amelo/devotee. Im sexually attracted by „femalecripplesonly“ , emphatically all kinds of female cripplement, not only amputees- if they crippled enough- a stiff finger or a missing hand is not enough. But it does not matter whether they‘re amputes, polios, cerebral palsys, para - or tetraplegics. I have not had s*ex for 30 years with not crippled women. I can not do that. Not crippled women, I find repulsive. This feeling has become stronger and stronger. year by year.



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Re: Amputee attraction waves

Post: # 32427Unread post Taffdev
26 Aug 2018, 15:45

Ampdev13, I've no idea of your age, but let me offer a few words of personal experience and (hopefully) comfort from someone who has been a dev for almost 50 years.

Back in the early days I used to try to block my interest, both consciously and (I now realise) subconsciously, because society perceived the attraction weird and undesirable.

Denial doesn't work! At some stage in our lives our brains have been rewired to find amputee women sexually attractive. You can't change that so learn to live with and control it - by which I mean don't become one of the few of our kind who have given us such a bad reputation.

If the attraction is impacting upon your ability to maintain a relationship then, much as I hate to say it, perhaps it's time to start looking for what you truly want.

That's not going to be easy, few things worth having seldom are. All I can say is, over a 30 year period I married two attractive, "normal" women. Only after my second divorce did I finally realise that I really needed to find an amp - which I did.

Sadly she passed away earlier this year, but as a cursory footnote, even whilst I was with her, my "ampdar" never turned off. I think of it as being like someone who owns a Ferrari still enjoying looking at Lamborghinis.



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Post: # 32438Unread post Ampdev13
27 Aug 2018, 05:18

Taffdev, Oh how I wish you were wrong!
The place I live has a small population and I only know of one, one legged girl in the whole area! I have asked her before if she knows of anyone else (as she is married) but unfortunately she didn't.
I have a good small business here and family and friends etc so moving just to find someone would not sit well with me... It is such an unfortunate thing as my partner is an amazing woman and we connect on many levels, just my desire to be with someone with one leg cannot be satisfied



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Post: # 32564Unread post Taffdev
29 Aug 2018, 22:37

Ampdev13, now that you've expanded the information about your circumstances I realise that you've one helluva conundrum, one that I don't envy you. I also fully understand why you feel unable to follow my suggestion and example.

When I decided it was time to (at least) try to live the dream I was a free agent with no particular ties or need to stay where I was. I found (via the internet), a woman with whom I connected, and within 6 months relocated over 300 miles to be with her.

Of course none of this will help you with your dilemma, but maybe it will help you focus upon what you truly want and what YOU feel you are able to do about it. If you decide to remain as you are there's no shame in it, you won't have failed. As far as I'm aware the vast majority of devs never move beyond fantasizing - hell, I didn't for 40 years.

Do I have any regrets about waiting that long? You bet your life I do! I should have pursued my dream after my first divorce - when I was barely 30. But I didn't and there's no point crying about it.

Finally I'll add this. In my experience the feelings of being a dev do not diminish with time, they're with you for life. I get as big a buzz now as 50 years ago from a sighting or photos/movies. Which is why, after a respectable period of mourning, I will be on the hunt again. Hopefully there's an attractive 50 something year old one legger out there waiting for me to find her.

I wish you well in whatever you decide.



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Post: # 33191Unread post Ampdev13
15 Sep 2018, 10:59

Taffdev, thanks for wishing me well, perhaps i need to be wished luck instead though lol!



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Re: Amputee attraction waves

Post: # 34152Unread post boston
17 Oct 2018, 05:00

Ampdev13 wrote:
23 Aug 2018, 08:41
I'd love to know if any other devs experience this, so please leave some feedback!

I feel my attraction to amputees fluctuates greatly over different spans of time. I can go weeks without a single thought or image related to amputees crossing my mind, but then I have times I can go a week or more and I have trouble switching off my devotee thoughts. During these highs I crave any form of contact with either like minded people or the source of my fantasy - Amputee women.
I rarely reach out though as contact would be pretty fruitless.

During a high I find my s*ex life with my girlfriend can even begin to taper off and I feel helpless and alone during these times...

Anyway, like I said I would enjoy hearing from some others!
Hey, good question :) thanks. To be honest, I do have the same. Can spend some time without, and then, out of sudden, I crave it like crazy. Usually the "high" for me is "fall" and "spring". But, changes.

Another observation I found, is that, the more my wife keeps pretending, the more I want the real "cake". Sometimes, it's not about the s*ex. It's something else, like keep myself excited with no further actions.



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